24 Sanity Saving Tips For Flying With A Toddler

So, you’re about to embark on a journey with your toddler? Trust me, I’ve been there, done that, and got the spit-up stained t-shirt to prove it. Flying with toddlers can be a bit like trying to keep a squirrel in a shoebox, but with a few handy tips, you can make the experience smoother for everyone involved. Let’s dive in!

1. Fly With Extra Leg Room

When selecting seats for your flight, opt for ones with extra space or consider booking an extra seat if your budget allows. Having some extra room can make the journey more comfortable for both you and your child, especially on long-haul flights or during travel days with extended layovers.

Paying for more legroom may seem counterintuitive because toddlers have shorter legs. However, they also come with more junk. Their stuff will inevitably make its way into your space. Do yourself a favour by giving your family more room. Consider using miles and points to offset the cost. 

2. Gate Check Your Stroller

​If you’re bringing a stroller, consider gate-checking it rather than checking it at the ticket counter. Gate checking allows you to use the stroller up until you board the plane and ensures it’s readily available upon arrival at your final destination or during layovers.

If you give up your stroller when you check in for your flight, you buy yourself two hours of following your toddler around and a great arm workout from all the heavy lifting. You also lose the single biggest benefit of a stroller, keeping children contained. Hold onto it. 

3. Research What Your Toddler Needs To Travel

When planning for your travel day, it’s essential to research what your toddler will require, especially for long-haul flights or international travel. Different destinations and modes of travel may have varying requirements, such as identification for your little one. Make sure to consult with flight attendants, gate agents, and even your travel insurance provider to understand the specific needs for your journey.

Ensuring that your toddler has the necessary documents, like a birth certificate or passport, is crucial for hassle-free travel. Even if not explicitly required, having these documents can be a lifesaver in emergencies or unexpected changes to your travel plans. Don’t overlook this step – it’s a small effort for peace of mind throughout your entire time away from home.

4. Family Boarding is a Must

Toddlers may slow you down in the airport, but they come with the added perk of family boarding. The window of time during which you can take advantage is slim. Do not miss this opportunity.  

Most airlines will allow families that require extra time to board before the general public, allowing you to get situated in your airplane seat without a mob of people dying to log onto their devices tapping their feet behind you.

If you fly Southwest, boarding before most others is especially important. Southwest doesn’t assign seats. There is a definite Hunger Games vibe. You don’t want to participate in this with small children. Fortunately, you don’t have to.

5. Keep Your Travel Time To A Minimum And Choose Wisely

Flights with connections are cheaper, but can you really put a price on sanity? Changing planes with toddlers and adding hours to your trip is a hassle you should avoid if at all possible. A direct flight is your best friend.

6. Travel When it Makes Sense

What time is your toddler generally in a good mood? Is your child a monster without enough sleep? Does your child have a hard time deviating from his or her routine? These are all things to keep in mind when making your travel plans. Try to travel when it makes sense for your family.

A lot of people assume nap time is a good time to travel. This may be true for some, but it does not work for everyone. If your child is overtired and not willing to roll with it, your flight is going to be miserable for not only you, but for fellow passengers.

Your family vacation does not have to be a marathon. Slow down, allow for some extra time to keep everyone comfortable and happy, and enjoy yourselves.

7. Flight Times – Morning Flight or Evening Flight?

This is one of the most important tips for flying with a toddler. Picking the right time to fly. Depending on how young your child is, decide which time of day you will fly. You might find a night flight better, as they sleep for most of the journey. We find that our toddler travels best in the day – so we opt for day time flights so that when we arrive at the hotel, they can have something to eat and go to bed at a normal time.

8. Reserve Your Car Seat and Pack and Play in Advance

Renting a car seat may make sense for you if you don’t want to check yours or drag it through the airport. Rental car companies are happy to take more money from you, but be sure to reserve the seat in advance. When they’re gone, they’re gone.  

Along the same lines, the vast majority of hotels offer Pack and Plays, but there is not an unlimited supply. Be sure to check with the hotel ahead of time to make sure you will be able to get one.  

Pro tip: If you find yourself in a bind with ground transportation, rideshare companies offer rides with car seats.

9. Accept That it Will Not Be Perfect

If you are used to traveling with adults, you may be used to relaxing spa weekends or active trips with lots of exploring. That isn’t going to work out this time.  Your kid isn’t going to go for that.

You can experience plenty of things with your kids and have an amazing, memorable trip. You will also have temper tantrums, frequent bathroom stops, and days that are cut short. You know what? That is OK.  

Kids are only going to be kids for so long. Enjoy the ride.

10. You Don’t Need to Bring All That Crap

Kids, and particularly toddlers, need a lot of stuff. However, you don’t need to bring a year’s supply of food and diapers for a weekend stay. You already have to carry the kids around. Don’t add unnecessary junk into the mix. You can always purchase something you forgot in a real pinch. Pack light.

If you will have some downtime, consider doing laundry on your trip. This thought may not be appealing, but it will cut the amount of luggage you have to carry in half and save you money on checked bags.

11. Find A Good Stroller Bag For Your Plane’s Size Restrictions

Some airlines have size restrictions on the bags you can carry onto the plane with you, so be sure to check before booking your flight if you plan on bringing your stroller! Babies R Us has a great chart of sizes that will fit in different types of overhead bin storage compartments.

12. Be Prepared For Delays

Toddlers don’t enjoy waiting in line or sitting still at all, so it’s important to plan ahead if there is a chance of delay. I recommend traveling with a few toys in your bag so that if you do get delayed either at the airport or on the plane, you can keep them entertained. Prepare for delays by bringing extra clothes (change of clothes), toys, books etc., just in case you end up waiting around at the airport terminal or on the plane while they wait for an available flight crew member to board passengers onto an incoming flight.

13. Screen Time

Providing screen time is my top tip for flying with a toddler. Keep all electronics charged before you leave home, so there is no need to use outlets at the airport. And then don’t feel bad putting your child in front of the iPad for a few minutes while waiting to board or whilst on the long flight itself. In fact, it’s a good idea to familiarize children with the iPad before they fly, so they don’t freak out or disturb other passengers. If you are going on a long-haul flight with your toddler, then think about how you will keep them entertained.

14. Sing A Song While Waiting To Board The Flight

Standing in the queue waiting to board your flight is very boring for a toddler (as us parents too!). So why not have them sing a song to keep them entertained? Some songs they could sing are : ‘Old Macdonald Had A Farm’, ‘Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes’ and ‘If You’re Happy and You Know It’.

15. Tell Them To ‘Look Around The Airport’

Let your toddler’s imagination wonder as they look at all the different objects in the airport. Ask “where do you think this plane is going?” and have them guess what each object is (and even make it into a game). Now, go talk something about that object! This activity will help keep their mind off of delays and them focusing on the people who are waiting to board.

16. Give Some Treats For Being Patient

Waiting in line to get through airport security can be very boring, especially if you’re traveling with a young child. To keep them entertained give them little sweets like goldfish crackers or granola bars, but don’t overdo it…

17. Toddler Headphones

Ah, how could I forget this one? If you’re planning on using any electronic devices, toddler headphones are a must-have. Not only are they designed to fit their little heads perfectly, but they also have volume limits to protect those delicate eardrums. Whether it’s for a movie, some soothing music, or an interactive game, these headphones can be a game-changer. Plus, they come in all sorts of fun colors and designs that your toddler will love. Just remember to give their ears regular breaks. Happy listening!

18. Pack Wisely for Diaper Changes

When traveling with younger children, especially on long-haul flights or during extended travel days, ensure you have an adequate supply of diapers and wipes in your hand luggage. Plan for diaper changes during the entire time of your journey to keep your little one comfortable.

19. Stay Hydrated

Remember to bring a refillable water bottle for your child, especially on flights with no or limited beverage service. Keeping your child hydrated during air travel is crucial, particularly on long-haul flights or during travel days with multiple connections.

20. Entertainment for All Ages

Pack a variety of entertainment options suitable for both older and younger children. Consider bringing a mix of toys, books, and electronic devices loaded with age-appropriate games or movies to keep everyone engaged throughout the journey.

21. Utilize Priority Boarding

Take advantage of priority boarding if you’re traveling with a young toddler or infant. Priority boarding allows you to board the plane early, giving you extra time to settle in and ensure your child is comfortable before the rest of the passengers board.

22. Prepare for Jet Lag

If you’re traveling across multiple time zones, be mindful of jet lag, especially when traveling with young children. Try to adjust your child’s sleep schedule gradually before the trip to minimize the impact of time changes. Additionally, encourage plenty of outdoor activities and exposure to natural light upon arrival to help reset their internal clock.

23. Plan for Layovers

If you have a longer layover during your travel day, plan ahead to keep your children entertained and comfortable. Research airport facilities such as play areas or family-friendly amenities to make the most of your layover time.

24. Consider Travel Insurance

When embarking on international flights or long-haul journeys with the whole family, it’s wise to consider purchasing travel insurance. Travel insurance can provide coverage for unexpected events such as flight cancellations, medical emergencies, or lost baggage, giving you peace of mind throughout your trip.

A few additional suggestions to consider:

1. Snack Attack: Always have a variety of snacks on hand. Hungry toddlers can become cranky toddlers in no time. Opt for healthy, non-messy snacks like cut-up fruits, cheese sticks, or rice cakes.
2. Hydration: Keep your toddler hydrated, especially during the flight. The air in planes can be dry, so having a sippy cup or a bottle of water can be a lifesaver.
3. Comfort Items: If your toddler has a favorite blanket, stuffed animal, or toy, make sure to bring it along. Familiar items can provide comfort in unfamiliar environments.
4. Dress in Layers: Airports and planes can have varying temperatures. Dressing your toddler in layers ensures they’re comfortable throughout the journey.
5. Interactive Books: Bring along some interactive books that can keep your toddler engaged. Flap books or touch-and-feel books can be especially entertaining.
6. Stay Calm: Toddlers can pick up on your emotions. If you’re stressed or anxious, they might become restless too. Take deep breaths, stay calm, and remember that this too shall pass.
7. Safety First: Consider using a child locator or a wrist link, especially in crowded airports. It’s an added layer of security to ensure your toddler doesn’t wander off.
8. Air Pressure: For takeoff and landing, consider giving your toddler a pacifier, bottle, or a snack to help with the ear pressure.
9. Sanitize: Airports and planes are full of germs. Carry sanitizing wipes and hand sanitizer to keep your toddler’s hands clean.
10. Stay Positive: As mentioned, attitude is everything. Celebrate the small victories, like a successful nap on the plane or a smooth security check. Every positive moment counts!
11. Car Seats and Comfort: If you’re considering bringing a car seat onboard, check with your airline first. Some flights allow them, and they can be a lifesaver, especially on long haul flights. Your toddler will have a familiar seat, and it might just help them fall asleep faster.
12. The Friendly Flight Attendant: Make friends with them! They’ve seen it all and often have great tips or extra snacks (because let’s face it, we can never have enough of those). They might even have some toddler airplane activities up their sleeves.
13. Airport Security: This can be daunting, but remember, you’ve got this! Keep your diaper bag organized. Have liquids and baby food in easy-to-reach places because you’ll need to show them. And pro-tip: if your toddler can walk, let them walk through the metal detector themselves. It can be a fun little game!
14. Window Seat Wonders: If you can, snag a window seat. The view can keep a toddler entertained for a surprising amount of time. Plus, it’s a bit more contained, and you won’t have to worry about them trying to make friends with the entire plane.
15. Long Haul Flights: These can be challenging. Think about an overnight flight where your little one usually falls asleep. Bring their favorite blanket or stuffed animal to make them feel at home.
16. Diaper Bag Essentials: Apart from diapers, pack more snacks than you think you’ll need. Trust me on this. Also, throw in some small toys, coloring books, and stickers. Anything to keep those tiny hands busy.
17. Baby Food: If your toddler is still on purees or specific foods, pack enough for the journey and a little extra. Remember, cabin pressure can make those pouches squirt, so open with caution!
18. Keeping the Toddler Entertained: This is the golden question, right? Portable puzzles, favorite books, and even some screen time (I won’t tell) can be lifesavers. There are also tons of toddler airplane activities available online to inspire you.
19. Overnight Flight: Dress them in comfy PJs, and don’t forget their favorite bedtime story. If you’re lucky, the hum of the plane and the dark cabin might just mean they (and you) get some sleep.
20. Domestic Flights vs. International: Domestic flights can be quicker and might not have all the amenities of a long-haul. Plan accordingly. If you’re going international, take advantage of the in-flight entertainment and meals.
21. First Class Fantasy: If you can splurge, first class can offer more space and a bit more peace. But honestly, toddlers don’t care if they’re in first class or economy. They just want to be with you.

Remember, every child is different. What works for one might not work for another. It’s all about finding what’s best for your family and enjoying the journey together. Safe travels!

Tips For Flying With A Toddler FAQ’s

What is the best way to travel with a toddler on a plane?

• Plan Ahead: Book flights during your toddler’s nap time or bedtime if possible. This increases the chances they’ll sleep during the flight.
• Pack Smart: Bring a well-stocked diaper bag with snacks, toys, a change of clothes, and any other essentials.
• Seat Selection: A window seat can be a good choice as it provides a view and reduces the chances of your toddler wanting to walk up and down the aisles.
• Stay Calm: Toddlers pick up on our emotions. If you’re calm and relaxed, it can help them feel the same.

How Do I keep My 2-Year-Old Calm On A Plane?

1. Snacks: Never underestimate the power of snacks. Bring a variety of their favorites.
2. Entertainment: Bring a mix of new and familiar toys, books, and coloring supplies. Tablets with their favorite shows or apps can also be a lifesaver.
3. Comfort Items: A favorite blanket or stuffed animal can provide comfort during the flight.
4. Walks: If the seatbelt sign is off and it’s safe, occasional walks up and down the aisle can help stretch their legs and provide a change of scenery.
5. Interaction: Talk to them about what’s happening, point out the clouds, or make up stories. Engaging with them can distract and calm them.

How Can I Protect My Baby’s Ears While On A Plane?

1. Feeding During Takeoff and Landing: This can help with ear pressure. For a toddler, a sippy cup or a snack can serve the same purpose.
2. EarPlanes: These are earplugs designed to help equalize the pressure in your child’s ears.
3. Stay Hydrated: Drinking water can help with ear pressure.
4. Pacifier: If your toddler still uses one, it can help with the pressure during takeoff and landing.

How Does A 2-Year-old Sit On A Plane?

1. Own Seat: By the age of 2, most airlines require children to have their own seat. You can bring an FAA-approved car seat for them to sit in if it fits the plane’s seat dimensions. This can make them feel more secure and comfortable.
2. Lap: Some international airlines might allow two-year-olds to sit on a parent’s lap, but this is less common. It’s always best to check with the airline.
3. Harness: If you’re not bringing a car seat, consider a child airplane travel harness. It turns an airplane seat into a safe seat for toddlers and is more compact than a car seat.

Do Toddlers Sit In Their Own Plane Seat With Their Own Seat Belt?

Yes, when toddlers have their own plane seat, they use the regular airplane seat belt just like adults do. Here’s how it typically works:

1. Regular Seat Belt: The airplane’s standard lap belt is used to secure the toddler in their seat. You’ll fasten the belt around their waist and tighten it to ensure it’s snug but comfortable.
2. Car Seats: If you bring an FAA-approved car seat (or the equivalent for your country) onboard for your toddler, they’ll be strapped into the car seat, and the car seat itself will be secured using the airplane’s seat belt. This can provide additional safety and comfort, especially for longer flights.
3. Child Airplane Travel Harness: Some parents opt to use a child airplane travel harness for their toddlers. This device provides additional upper body support and is secured using the airplane’s regular seat belt. It’s a more compact alternative to a car seat but offers more restraint than the seat belt alone.
4. During the Flight: It’s essential to ensure the seat belt is fastened whenever the seat belt sign is on. This keeps the child safe during turbulence or other in-flight events.
5. Safety First: While toddlers might not always like being restrained, it’s crucial for their safety. Bringing along a favorite toy, book, or snack can help distract and comfort them while they’re buckled in.

Remember, every child is different, and what works for one might not work for another. It’s all about finding what’s best for your little one and being prepared. Safe travels! ✈️👶🌍

Final Thoughts – Tips Flying With A Toddler

Traveling with young kids is a blessing, but it will cause your hair to grey prematurely. Do what you can to make it easier, make plans, and spend time with your kids. Don’t wait until they get older. You will never get this time back.

Attitude is everything. I look back on the roughest nights in hotels with our young children and laugh. I wasn’t laughing at the time, but I am laughing now. You will too.